Ny's Sister Graduation
WHO Ny (Nyli Starlight)
WHEN Sunday, Sep. 12, 2021
WHERE Chateau Gardens
WELCOME Thomas Xue
FOR SAMOIS HOUSE Sana Lisbeth
RECOMMENDATION Loki (BadLOKI)
MENTOR Sefa Kesslinger
By Blue Ronsein, Roissy Journaliste
Photography by Xanadu Xue
As delighted supporters and members of VdO crowded into their seats, the lovely Xanadu Xue, as Adjointe de Samois, stands in the Sunday twilight and begins the ceremony. "Sister Sefa.. Please prepare and bring forward our Graduating Demoiselle Ny.. to her place on the cushion near Maitre Loki."
Sefa smiles to Ny, my small hands reach up undoing her bandeau top, unhooking up and slipping into hands to place under my cushion. “Ny , please be seated, turns and takes my cushion”
"Honored guests, We welcome all to this joyous event for today as we come together to witness the Graduation of this Demoiselle. Soon .. Demoiselle Ny will join the exclusive ranks of the Roissy Val d'Oise Sisterhood .. and will continue to serve our Dominants and serve the community . This is indeed a happy occasion which has brought us here today. I am pleased to announce ... although the House of Samois loses a Demoiselle today .. Roissy Val d'Oise gains a welcomed Sister
“It is with some sadness that we bid farewell to Demoiselle Ny as she leaves Samois to rejoin the wider Roissy community ... her path will not end .. it is ever evolving as she continues to serve and grow in her knowledge. As a Sister she will continue to be actively involved .. taking part within the community as well as serving our Dominants and assisting others with their paths. Our Sisters also are supportive with those of the House of Samois .. as it is our Sisters who are the Mentors to the our young and striving Debutantes and Demoiselles .
“Our VdO submissives are always welcomed at Samois .. as it is our home and comfort center .. should they ever feel this desire or need for time to their selves. The Samois Sisters Venna Gillian Sana Yvette and Julie our Assistant or myself will be available .. should you ever need a shoulder to lean on or just a friendly chat."
She smiles to him .."Maitre Thomas I respectfully invite you to welcome everyone."
W E L C O M I N G D O M I N A N T
Thomas stands, brushes off my slacks and nods to her, speaking clearly, "Thank you, Xanadu"
smiles, looking to the crowd, "Loyal Members and Guests, we are gathered here today for one of our oldest and most treasured traditions at Roissy Val d'Oise. It is a fine for a graduation indeed.” slipping my hands in my suit pockets speaking with a firm clear voice, "The sister graduation is the cumulation of persistent and hard work with many tasks both fun, arduous, and can be time consuming.
“Ny's, graduation means quite a lot to her and to all of our family who watched her grow as a result of her training here. Ny has stayed persistent and has showed her commitment to Roissy. She deserves the credit. Focusing on the present, today is a very special day for her as she graduates from Demoiselle Ny to Sister Ny,which is a significant milestone both for her and the community.
“Ny leaves Samois to serve Roissy, under the guidance of myself and all of the Dominants of the Chateau. The community should always rejoice that a new Sister has joined us, and especially one who has embraced Roissy well. I am pleased to see so many of our members here today. The sisters of our sim earn the right to be called "sister" and are not granted a tag on admission like some sims do.
“Our sisters have earned the right to be proud of their accomplishments here. They have also earned the right to help our sim in additional ways, now that they have completed the journey to VDO Sister.
"Please continue, Xanadu."
"Maitre Thomas thank you for your welcome encouraging words regarding our Demoiselle Ny. She smiles to Sana .. Samois Sister Sana please welcome everyone on behalf of the House of Samois."
F O R S A M O I S H O U S E
“Maitre Thomas, Maitre Loki, distinguished friends, family and guests. I am honored to represent the House of Samois and welcome you to share in celebrating Demoiselle Ny achieving the status of Sister.
“I encourage you all to look around. Not just at the person you chose to sit next to but to everyone here today. We are all a testament to why VdO just simply - works. A community comprised of acquaintances, friends, lovers and the friends you just haven't met yet.
“Ny joined Roissy Val d'Oise to begin her exploration of self, to grow in her submission and serve not only the dominants here, but all everyone as she was able. Ny faced and conquered the challenges of her path and of being a team player, working towards goals that benefited our members.
“As Ny journeyed from Debutante to Demoiselle she always presented herself with poise and grace. Though seemingly quiet and reserved, I recall Ny participating in many events supporting both dominant and submissive alike. Her talent as a builder became apparent setting up décor as needed around the region and most memorably her Sister event. I admired Ny’s ability, her creativity, to take us from our current 1950’s France to the Steam genre so elegantly.
“The path to become a Sister at VDO isn’t always easy. We often have some difficult and emotional times to work through, but this all is a part of our progress. If our path was easy we would not experience the growth necessary to be a Sister of VDO.
“The submissive journey is not one to be rushed, taking the time to understand the depths of our service, to embrace the many challenges. Finding value and growth through service and discipline, to be proud, yet humble individuals. It does indeed take a village; I wish to thank everyone here for supporting Ny and Roissy Val d’Oise.
”Xanadu stands, “Thank you Samois Sister Sana for your gracious welcome from the House of Samois and your encouraging words for Demoiselle Ny.”
Xanadu smiles to Maitre Loki .. "Maitre Loki as Ny's Finals Maitre, please present your recommendations for her advancement ."
R E C O M M E N D A T I O N
Maitre Loki leans forward, lightly touches Ny’s cheek giving her a warm smile as he stands from his chair. He steps forward and turns to look at the dignitaries on stage acknowledging each of them with a smile before turning back to the audience. "Greetings and warmest of welcomes to all our Roissy Val d'Oise family members and Ny’s other friends who’ve gathered here to celebrate Demoiselle Nyli Starlight's Sister Graduation Ceremony.”
He pauses briefly and continues " it’s times like this, where we gather together to celebrate the success of one of our own, that I feel the strongest connection to being part of our family here at Roissy Val d’Oise. Thank you all for being here today and thank you to those that contributed to making this happen.
“Speaking of people that made this happen, without Rene, our community here at Roissy Val d’Oise would not exist. Thank you, Rene, for your vision, leadership and generosity." He beams a smile out to the audience as he speaks again "Tevye from Fiddler on the Roof said ‘Without our traditions, our lives would be as shaky as... as... as the fiddler on the roof!’ So it is, with our community at Roissy Val d’Oise. Where would our community be without the enrichment of our traditions? Arguably the most important of our traditions at Roissy Val d’Oise is the celebration of a Sister Graduation.”
He looks around the audience, catching eye contact with some before speaking again “Today, we gather together to celebrate Nyli Starlight’s Sister Graduation.” Pivoting around, he gives Ny a smile before turning back to the audience and continuing. “Graduating as a Sister at Roissy Val d’Oise is no mean feat. Ny, like all our graduating Sisters before her, has successfully completed many arduous tasks and difficult challenges, while learning and growing as a submissive. When Ny asked me to be her Sister Finals Maitre, I felt honored to accept.”
Loki gathers his thoughts and continues " Ny Sister Finals commencement was significantly delayed due to some RL challenges, however, this time was not wasted. I grew to know Ny as a very intelligent, and inquisitive person who was open in sharing her thoughts, feelings and concerns about her Sister Finals. Our many discussions helped us to get to know each other better, develop a good Sister Finals plan and form a strong basis for trust.”
He reflects for a moment before speaking again “During her Sister Finals, Ny delighted me with her full submission, her expressive emotes, her enthusiasm to learn and her wonderful gift of trust that contributed significantly to completing her Finals successfully.”
He turns to Ny and smiles “Thank you, Ny, for choosing me as your Maitre. Sharing our scenes with you was delightful."
He turns to the dignitaries on stage and back to the audience " I am pleased to report that Ny met or exceeded all my expectations and challenges I set for her as her Finals Maitre. I highly recommend Ny to be promoted to Sister of Roissy Val d'Oise. Thank you all for your time in listening to me. Also thank you all for your patience as SL was not very kind to me and showed me who's really the boss: And he returns to his seta.
“Thank you Maitre Loki for your wonderful recommendation of advancement for our Ny .. I smiled at your refreshing and positive words in regards for her."
Xanadu smiles to Sefa.. "Sister Sefa please share your remarks regarding your mentee Ny."
M E N T O R ‘ S S P E E C H
Sefa rises from my soft cushion, dainty hands smooths down the gown, smiles peering over to Maitre Thomas. Smiles softly, unfurls the written speech, smiles over to Ny, the beautiful self assured woman , before beginning to speak. “I am very proud to see Ny reach this milestone, its been quite the journey for her. For a time Ny had to take a brief hiatus due to real life obligations. Once she returned and immersed herself into Roissy she tackled her tasks with enthusiasm , nothing was going to stop this woman as she completed her few remaining tasks.
“Ny's Workshop" The Erotic Art of Teasing The Senses." there was standing room only in the classroom ... I don't know about others but certainly learned a few new things about sensation play! Her Sister Event was well planned out and executed. It was a delightful evening of Cogs and Steampunk, discovering well thought out clues.
Ny and I had numerous conversations as she traversed the remaining steps towards her graduation today. There are many here ( you know who you are) that have helped , guide her, support and mentor her when I have been unable to be here. I am deeply grateful to you all for that.
“ I am always humbled as I watch each mentee reach their own zenith, watched their struggles and shared their joys. Ny, I am honored to be your friend and mentor, you will always have my support in whatever you chose.. I will always be here for you. I have watched you blossom to become a confident, self assured woman that can conquer anything that comes your way. We all need our 'cheerleaders' in the balcony of life, I see that in you as we arrive at this turning point in your path. Thank you, Ny for allowing me to walk this journey with you. I have enjoyed every step along the way.”
She gracefully knees on the cushion, smoothing down the dress. Xanadu speaks.
“Maitre Thomas, you have heard the recommendations from Demoiselle Ny's finals Maitre .. Maitre Loki and supported by her mentoring Sister Sefa. I respectfully invite you to confer to Demoiselle Ny the title and the ring of our Sisterhood"
T H E C O N F E R M E N T
He scratches his chin and nods affirmatively. "itting back in my chair thinking and reflecting on the comments and recommendations, and grandiose words about our sim, i have heard today before confirming. smiles to the group and says, "I am always prize the detailed recommendations,
Proceed please, Xanadu"
Receiving permission .. smiles to her .. "Demoiselle Ny, come forward please and kneel before Maitre Thomas."
Ny's skirt swishes around her ankles as she pads across the stage. She smiles at Maître Thomas then lowers her eyes as she kneels gracefully before him.
He looks at the Demoiselle kneeling before me then along the platform, recalling all of their supportive words as I have done for many years. Looks out towards the gathered community, friends and family feeling very proud to be a part of this wonderful famille of Roissy Val d’ Oise. He reaches into his pocket searching for the piece of neatly folded but worn linen stationary, where he has taken notes on different occasions along her journey. He smiles looking toward all the Debutantes and Demoiselles and says, "you see Submissives, I do take notes.
“I recall, that Ny, thought one night she could leave a sticky lolipop stuck my desk and get a way with it. Her bottom, did meet my paddle." (Laughter)
Thomas clears his throat and continues “You see here before you .... a submissive woman, one that has honored her path. She was accepted into the House of Samois on October 19, 2016 as Debutante Ny.
"She then progressed and moved on to the time of her Initiation on November 6, 2016 , where she served and was opened by Dominants of Chateau Roissy Val D’ Oise and became known as Demoiselle Ny.
"Her journey continued as she traveled along wanting to learn and absorb. On May 2, 2021 she presented an awesome workshop titled 'The Erotic Art of Teasing the Senses.' She continued next with her well planned 'Cogs & Corsets: A Steampunk Event' presented on June 19, 2021.
"Her Final task was a test within her limits of her submission based upon her strengths and weaknesses. The Adjointe de Samois Xanadu then received a notice from Loki receiving a favorable recommendation and that all was completed verifying she was worthy of Sisterhood. Now today she kneels before us on September 12th 2021, to receive what she had committed herself too, the giving of her submission, today she will have bestowed upon her the VDO sister ring and title of Sister.
"You have heard about her journey and her commitment that has brought her today. Here is a true inspiration for those who still have to complete their journey.” He leans forward and takes Ny’s hand. She smiles gratefully and wiggles up proudly while remaining in her kneel.
He holds her hand as I dig deep into my pockets searching for the ring before finding the correct one… swears a few words in French..”now where did I put that ring…” and Ny’s eyes widen as she watches him dig around in his pocket…. but with a little relief and a confident smile he finds it. and inspects it closely seeing the gleaming golden ring sparkle and places it onto Demoiselle Ny's finger crouching forward as I speak softly to her, “Congratulations Ny you will inspire many.” She smiles happily.
Thomas sits back... So very proud, turning to Xanadu, "I agree with the recommendations, please Xanadu, give our newest Sister her rightful tag and let’s welcome her into our Sisterhood here at Roissy Val d'Oise"
Obeying Maitre Thomas' instruction .. Xanadu stood and smiled to our kneeling Demoiselle Ny.. then looked towards to our assembled members and guests drawing their attention.
"To become a Sister of Roissy Val d’ Oise a submissive has to have many qualities, some are as follows: To be Trustworthy, Graceful, Loyal, Humble, Obedient, Enduring, Patient ..... and remain submissive no matter how hard that maybe. You have shown these qualities Demoiselle Ny -- No more will you carry that title ..... Cast it aside and wear this one that I give you at this time.
“Sister Ny… Wear the emblem of Sisterhood with pride as you go out to a new and exciting future in Roissy Val d'Oise. I remind you to always serve with passion and always from your heart .. returning to the community that which was given to you .” She pauses to let the new title resonate amongst those assembled. "Congratulations Sister Ny and welcome to our Honored Roissy Val d'Oise Sisterhood ."
[Cheers and congratulations]
S I S T E R ' S S P E E C H
The new sister looks over to Maître Loki and feels his support as she remembers his encouraging words. Ny's face brightens with a smile and then she mouths, "Thank you," to him. Her gaze sweeps back to Xanadu and she smiles and nods. "Thank you, Xanadu." She rises gracefully and turns.
happy tears start to trail down her cheeks as she smiles to all those that have gathered. She carefully brushes a few tears away with the back of her finger. "Thank you for being here to celebrate with me."
"My journey doesn't end here so I must admit that graduation is something I dreaded ... until I realized that was selfish. I did not get here alone and I am not alone now. Graduation is about everyone that helped me get to this point. It is a community accomplishment and celebration.
"I arrived here nearly 5 years ago and there are so many individuals I'd love to thank ... friends, family, and administrators. I believe you all know who you are so a huge thank you to those who have been there for me, supported me, taught me, and made me giggle. You mean so much to me!
"When you are a part of a community in sl for as long as I have been, it is inevitable that the faces will change. And so it is that some of the people that were a part of my experience here have moved on in some way, but they live on in our community for the indelible marks they have left on our lives. They taught us lessons that we pass along.
"I've been fortunate to have two strong and amazing women as mentors. Somehow, Sana managed to get me through my deb stage and has always been available to answer my unending questions. She's supportive and has often pointed out when I'm making mountains out of mole hills. She has a way of seeing the core of an issue and I'm grateful for her candor, friendship, and everything she's done for me.
"When I strayed off the path, Sefa gave me space while frequently checking in on me and gently trying to pull me back to Roissy. At times she's offered a shoulder to cry on, a friend to laugh with, and a even threatened to whip me into shape if I didn't finish my workshop! She has taught me the meaning of sisterhood by being a excellent example. I'm thankful for her as a mentor and friend.
"Maître Loki...wow! There's so much that I wish I could say but we'd be here a long time! He's a wise man that always makes me think in ways that give me new insights to myself or different ways to look at things. I cherish and I'm forever grateful for his Dominance, friendship, and the lessons he's taught me. I've learned and grown so much as a submissive and a person with Maître Loki's help.
"There's one person that has stood by me and supported and encouraged me on a day-to-day basis. There aren't words to express how much I appreciate him. I'll stick with the beauty of simplicity. Thank you, Master Denis!"
She pauses for a moment as she smiles warmly. "I've learned a lot about myself as an individual and the importance of our community. Please, imagine with me...Imagine the moment when you stroll up to a beautiful garden. The flowers greet you with an array of colors. There are yellow ones, white ones, blue ones, pink ones, all sorts of colors in an assortment of shades. Their sweet scents mingle in the air. It's a stunning display.
"Now I invite you to look closer. Fragile petals bloom upon willowy stems. The individual flowers are unique and beautiful. Look at the petals and the leaves. Notice the curled edges, brown spots, and small holes, from the elements and pests as they take their toll. Each flower is beautifully imperfect.
"People are like flowers.They are fragile and they have scars. They are beautifully imperfect ... Protect them, guide them, give them room to grow and keep them safe. Allow them to blossom. Thank you to each of you, the individuals, that have touched my life directly or indirectly.
"Communities are like gardens, tend them and build them up. Our community is like a beautiful garden with an array of different people. I'd like to thank Maitre Rene for his vision and giving us a place to blossom.
"Reflect, be understanding, practice tolerance, forgive, and be good to each other. Thank you!"
stands and turns to Sister Ny.. " Thank you for your words and I know each word was expressed with sincerity "
Xanadu stands as Ny returns to the cushion and settles next to Maître Loki. "It has been a pleasure to have gotten to know you better Sister Ny. I now ask that you to please take your place near Maitre Loki again ."
S U M M A T I O N
Xanadu continues, "Our Sister Ny has proven to be dedicated to Roissy .. and is ready to continue serve our Dominants and assist others as needed."
"I was present at Ny 's " The Erotic Art of Teasing the Senses " Workshop .. "I attended and also participated in her "Cogs & Corsets: A Steampunk Event" Sister Event .. needless to say both were enjoyed.
"Ny's participation in the community has shown she can depended upon being steadily consistent and will be a fine example of a Sister. The Roissy VdO paths to Sisterhood and perhaps to Roissy O or to becoming a Master or Maitre are done with the thoughts not only for themselves .. but for the others in our community. Our paths are structured to be done in service to the community while we progress grow and learn.
"Many come to VdO both previously with experience and many without experience or just simply wanting to be educated further in the BDSM lifestyle practices and to learn safely while interacting with others
"Sister Ny has shown her submissiveness ... not only from her log entries but also from Maitre Loki's positive recommendation and with the support of her mentor Sefa. The Finals we participate in are inclusive of the teachings we receive here at Roissy .. and taught in our finals .. which also allows us to realize our growth since beginning our respective paths .
"Our Finals may seem at times a bit hard ... but in the end it allows your core submission to blossom and continue to grow in your own awareness.
"An existential part of becoming a Sister is the time spent actively working for the betterment of our community. At times our real life restricts our intentions of being here .. but with commitment ... it can over come any obstacle."
"We are fortunate to have this amazing community Maitre Rene has offered this to us as we safely learn the ins and outs of BDSM ... and all he asks in return is for our presence here and to do your part to keep it growing and flourishing.
"All the work we do in our community should be done earnestly and without special recognition or rewards. While having the desire to help others grow and continually serving in whatever way we can. This is the reward we offer to Maitre Rene .. our commitment to Roissy.
"I once again remind y’all that our Mentoring Dominants and Sisters presence in the community is highly needed ... actively spending time with their mentees . Our Mentors .. both Dominant and Submissive .. are to provide positive examples. They also may ask their mentees to be present during their scenes .. teaching while also gently assisting them through their guidance and support.
"Once graduated .. Our Sisters continue to assist others in our community on their paths .. as well as the usual touring hosting and presentation of various workshops. For this .. I sincerely thank yall .. Your continued support to the House of Samois in the variety of things you do is indeed needed.
"First and primarily to our Dominants .. a sincere thank you to yall for being here to encourage and help us .. and especially .. for your patience as we continue to learn while we serve you.
"To our Submissives .. We personally thank each of you for your continual support .. please remember .. we never have to pursue anything here by ourselves ... for we are a team.
"Each of you are special to me and I am here for you .. but above all .. y’all are very important to the success of VdO as it is y’all who makes our community survive.
"Many of our Members do things for the community thats sometimes are not visual to others. Id like to say thank you to a few.. Sana for setting up for the graduations .. Julie for decorating the Ballroom ..Sadie for setting the music.. for our various ceremonies and also Blue for her work on the website .. which allows people get a peek as to what Roissy Vdo is about. " She turns .. "Maitre Thomas .. One again .. Through you to Maitre Rene .. We thank you for your generosity and the gift given us daily .. this wonderful community .. where we are free to learn and discover our inner selves safely.
"In closing remember to hold high the principals of Roissy ValD'Oise .. that Maitre Rene has provided . We have the Best of the Best here. The positive support we offer to each other .. only insures to reinforce our strength and continued growth ... proving once again " We are Familee" .
"Please think about what you would like to do in our community to help make Roissy even better .. both our graduated Dominants and Submissives are needed . Speak to either Maitre Rene Maitre Thomas or myself. Please know .. Y’ALL.. are what makes Roissy work.
"If there is anything you wish to share or offer the sim please let Maitre Rene know .. by dropping a note card in his Red mail box out side his office. We wont know of your awesome suggestions .. if y’all don’t share them with us.
"Please remember to check our website so you will stay up to date on all the happenings of VdO http://www.roissy-vdo.com/
"Maitre Thomas, that concludes the graduation ceremony. The House of Samois is proud to see another of its Demoiselles taking her place in the wider Roissy community.
"Maitre Thomas, I respectfully invite you to please close the proceedings witnessed by those present today"
T O A S T & D I S M i S S A L
Thomas smiles, "Thank you, Xanadu. I know you work very hard on these ceremonies and it is much appreciated.”
“My pleasure Maitre Thomas.”
"Hhmm the fun part..the booze (coughs). He opens the bottle of Le Rêve Blanc de Blancs ...California Sparkling Wine. We all know its just Champagne, but we can't call it that due to the French insisting on it. Ny bites her lip in a failed attempt to hide her smile.
He pours himself a flute full and hands one to Ny. He clinks her glass and smiles. She accepts the glass and smiles up to Maître Thomas. "thank you, Maitre."
Thomas raises his glass and speaks, "Come everyone and raise your glass with me in congratulating and welcoming Ny into the sisterhood here at Roissy Val d'Oise."
[Cheers and toasts]
"With the many new approaches to a good start, let us each work together and share ideas. Let us grow as a community as we seek to move forward. My door is always open if you wish to share ideas or just need to talk.
“Please join us at 3:30 for Sister Ny's celebration dance in the Ballroom with AleyKat. Everyone is dismissed. Thank you all, my friends.”
Ny raises her glass with a sweeping motion to everyone. "Thank you...each of you for being here and all your kind words and support! Cheers!"
