Staci's Sister Graduation

WHO                                  Staci (staci.martinek)
WHEN                                Sunday, April 18, 2021
WHERE                               Chateau Garden          
WELCOME                          Xanadu Xue
FOR SAMOIS HOUSE        Yvette
RECOMMENDATION         Badloki
MENTOR                            Asfridr Verne

by Dreamsdesire Starfall, Roissy Journaliste
Photography by Xanadu

The hint of a rainbow in the sky on this pleasant day.  Family and friends gathered in the garden for the graduation of the newest sister at Roissy Vdo.  

Asfridr presented the blushing Staci to the community and all kneeled or sat in their chairs as the graduation commenced.

Xanadu stood proudly "Honored guests, We welcome all to this joyous event for today as we come together to witness the Graduation of this Demoiselle.  Soon .. Demoiselle Staci will join the exclusive ranks of the Roissy Val d'Oise Sisterhood .. and will continue to serve our Dominants and serve the community ."   She continued with the values and support of the House of Samois will always offer to the submissive girls irregardless of their path level. 

W E L C O M I N G   D O M I N A N T

Thomas  smiles, looking to the crowd assembled on this wonderful spring day, "Loyal Members and Guests,  we are gathered here today for one of our oldest and most treasured traditions at Roissy Val d'Oise.

"The sister graduation is the cumulation of persistent and hard work with many tasks both fun and arduous. Staci's graduation means quite a lot to her and to all of our family who watched her grow as a result of her training here.

"Staci leaves Samois to serve Roissy, under the guidance of  myself and all of the Dominants of the chateau.  The community should always rejoice that a new Sister has joined us, and especially one who has worked so hard on her path at  Roissy..

"Our sisters have earned the right to be proud of their accomplishments here. They have also earned the right to help our sim in additional ways now that they have completed the journey to VDO Sister."

Thomas returned to his seat, and Xanadu continued by introducing a Samois Assistant. 

F O R   S A M O I S   H O U S E

Yvette rises and speaks. "Maitres, Masters, Maitresses, Misses, Sirs, Sisters and family members.  It is with the greatest of pride and pleasure that I welcome you All here today, to join us in congratulating our newest Sister on behalf of the House of Samois".   Looks at everyone gathered, the familiar, encouraging faces that encompass our..Roissy, home, all our friends and family.

"Demoiselle Staci has been an inspiration to many here today.  The happiness she exudes, is felt, her positive energy, her willingness to help, which will be a huge asset as she receives her Sister tag.

"Today marks the end of her debutante and demoiselle journey, the start of her role as sister at Roissy.  As sister she will be a role model for others following in her footsteps, a guide to those who come to us who are lost or discovering their submission.  A sister who will present workshops, talk and share her experiences with her mentees and others who need guidance."

R E C O M M E N D A T I O N

Maitre Loki stands and takes a moment to compose himself as he surveys the audience gathered here today on this auspicious occasion of Staci Martinek's Sister Ceremony. He turns to acknowledge those on stage and turns back to the audience. His pleasure to be here radiates out through his warm smile and the crinkle around his eyes as his smile spreads to the rest of his face.

He takes a deep breath and begins to speak, forceful enough to carry his voice to the back of the audience "Warmest of greetings to everyone. It's a delight to see so many of Roissy Val d'Oise family members and Staci's other friends gather together here today for Staci's Sister Ceremony."

"This is a CELEBRATION. Primarily it is a celebration of Staci's success in completing her Roissy Val d'Oise training path. Staci's determination and dedication in doing so is certainly worthy of our admiration and taking this time to share this moment with her."

Loki glances from face to face, sharing a smile with those he catches eye contact with, takes another deep breath and resumes "Each of these ceremonies is also a celebration of our community's commitment to providing excellent quality training to both our submissives and Dominants. This is one of the many reasons I love being part of our community and am so honored to speak with all of you today."

"Finally, it is a celebration of our good fortunate in being the recipients of one person's vision, leadership and generosity in giving us Roissy Val d'Oise, both the community and provision of a place we can call home.  Thank you so much René"

He swivels back, beaming a smile out to his audience as he speaks again "As I said, the first and foremost reason for us being here today is to celebrate Staci's success. I first met Staci in November last year, shortly after I returned to Roissy after an extended absence.  Staci made this stranger feel welcome, and engaged me in a delightful conversation filled with warmth, friendliness and humor. Through many more conversations since that beginning I have had the joy of getting to know Staci further." He looks back to Staci and smiles at her again.

"I have come to know Staci as an intelligent, knowledgeable, talented, warm and friendly person with a great sense of humor.  Moreover, in relation to our community, she is a submissive at heart who loves to serve.  If you are fortunate enough to scene with Staci, she brings her all to the scene and delights with her expressive emotes and making you feel her submission to you

"I was honored with being requested by Staci to be her Sister Finals Maitre. Xanadu set some challenging goals for us to achieve which took some thought and planning. " He turns and winks at Xanadu before continuing "I am pleased to report that Staci fully met every challenge set for her. Without any reservation, I highly recommend Staci to be promoted to Sister of Roissy Val d'Oise. I am sure that in this new role, Staci will contribute to our community at Roissy significantly."

M E N T O R ‘ S   S P E E C H 

Asfridr stands her eyes cast to Staci with a bright smile on her face and whispers "I am so proud of you my friend and mentee. I am so honored to be standing here today not only as Staci's mentor but as her friend . From the first day I met Staci we hit it off, then I was told she is my mentee.

"I was beyond thrilled to hear this, From that day forward I have had the pleasure of mentoring and really getting to know Staci and watching her blossom into the beautiful soul she is today.

"Staci was always on the more shy side, but I can honestly say I have seen her come out of her shell. I think that is why we get along so well we complimented each other since I am far from shy.

"Staci would ask me  As, I am a real life submissive, I wouldn't do that real life how can I do that here. We sat and discussed ways and she always found her ground how to continue. Staci attacked her path with a pure heart and a mature attitude.

"I watched as Staci grew in her Debutaunt path and then moving on to her Demoiselle Path and now today becoming a Sister of Roissy, I couldn't be more proud knowing today she will become the newest of our incredible and beautiful Sisters.

Asfridr smiles to her mentee before she looks back to those gathered and says to our new Debs. "We all have challenges in each path we are given, Some will struggle and some may fall, but it is what you do when you fall. I know when you are ready it will be Your graduation."

"I am so happy I was chosen to be on this path with you Staci, to guide you when you needed guiding, to hug you when you needed a hug, to listen when you needed someone to listen to you and most of all I am so happy at the great friendship you and I have formed.

"You will make an awesome addition to Our Sisterhood as you are already Obedient Humble and Loyal.. *blows her a kiss* Love you my Friend Staci."

T H E  C O N F E R M E N T

Thomas  sits back in his chair thinking and reflecting on the comments, rubbing my beard stubble and pondering the recommendations he has heard today before confirming.

Thomas smiles to the group and says, "I am always taken aback, and pleasantly warmed by all the commendations," indicates to Xanadu his own confirmation to continue with the proceedings with a nod.

Thomas reaches into his pocket searching for the piece of neatly folded but worn linen stationary, where he has taken notes on different occasions along her journey. Thomas smiles looking toward all the Debutantes and Demoiselles and says, "You see Submissives, I do take notes."

Thomas  begins to speak  “You see here before you .... a submissive woman,  one that has honored her path. She was accepted into the House of Samois on  April 6th 2020 as Debutante Staci."

"She then progressed and moved on to the time of her Initiation on May 18th , where she served and was opened by Dominants of Chateau  Roissy Val D’ Oise and became known as Demoiselle Staci.

"Her journey continued as she traveled along wanting to learn and absorb. On November 1st she presented an awesome workshop titled "Overcoming Shyness".  She continued next with her well planned *Roissy's Picnic Galore* for her Sister Event  presented on  December 6th.

"Her Final task was a test of her Submission based upon her strengths and weaknesses. The Adjointe de Samois Xanadu then received a notice from Loki receiving a favorable recommendation and that all was completed verifying she was worthy of Sisterhood.

Now today she kneels before us on April 18th 2021, to receive what she had committed herself too, the giving of her submission, today she will have bestowed upon her the VDO sister ring and title of  Sister.

"You have heard about her journey and her commitment that has brought her today.  Here is a true inspiration for those who still have to complete their journey”  As he inspects it closely seeing the gleaming golden ring sparkle and places it onto Demoiselle Staci's  finger crouching forward as he speaks softly to her, “Congratulations  Staci you will inspire many.”

Thomas) sits back... So very proud, turning to xanadu, "Please give our newest Sister her rightful tag and let’s welcome her into our Sisterhood here at Roissy Val d'Oise"

Xanadu, obeying Maitre Thomas' instruction .. stood and smiled to our kneeling Demoiselle Staci.. then looked towards to our assembled members and guests drawing their attention. "To become a Sister of Roissy Val d’ Oise a submissive has to have many qualities, some are as follows:

"To be Trustworthy, Graceful, Loyal, Humble, Obedient, Enduring, Patient ..... and remain submissive no matter how hard that may be. You have shown these qualities Demoiselle Staci. No more will you carry that title ..... Cast it aside and wear this one that I give you at this time

“Sister Staci"

"Wear the emblem of Sisterhood with pride as you go out to a new and exciting future in Roissy Val d'Oise. I remind you to always serve with passion and always from your heart .. returning to the community that which was given to you."

S I S T E R ' S  S P E E C H

Staci  smiles blushing as Asfridr pins the panels up hugs her tightly and whsieprs "thank you my mentor and dear friend and sister"

Staci gets up takes a nervous breath then smiles at Maitre Thomas, Maitre Loki, and my mentor Asfridr, reaches and wipes a tear from my eyes before twirling about and facing the daunting crowd.  Trembles a moment, takes another deep breath then smiles and begins speaking.

"I would like to first thank Maître Rene for his vision here.  Without it none of us would be here and I wouldn’t be standing before all of you, my friends, my family.

"I also want to thank all those who put so much work in here at Roissy, like Maître Thomas, and Maître Dom, Xanadu, Sana, and oh so many more.  Each of you makes this place amazing, so thank you!

"Staci  closes eyes fighting tears and breaths deeply then continues    "When I first came to Roissy it was for the sole purpose of meeting and talking with Xanadu.  She had been in a group friends IM conference that Sir Shayne had started for a show.  I didn’t have anything at all to wear that was formal really.  I really hate to shop.  So I came to meet the kind woman who gave me something I could wear.  She then had Emma give me a tour. "

"After that for about a week or two, as I first came here in March of last year. I asked so many questions.  I wanted to be sure if I decided to apply I would be able to finish it without risking harm in a psychological manner

Staci  smiles and winks at Maitre Chicago "lord knows he was ever so patient with my questiosn"

"See I have experience in real life, years of it, so I have learned for any path to be cautious whether online or offline.  I never imagined then how I would grow and change here."

Staci smiles as eyes connect with each person briefly  as I continue,  "Over the course of this year, there were many times that I was so frustrated, felt so alone, even times I thought of throwing in the towel.  Each time though someone here came along and helped lift me up, either with a kind word, or even at times just sitting letting me babble like Maître Thomas did when I lost some people I loved in real life."

"Other people I would personally like to thank are Xanadu for always being patient, freyja for always being my friend and confidante even helping me become comfortable on the pole, Emma for always being such a good example and always having a kind word at just the right time, and Master Ash, for always being there to talk to and banter back and forth with.

"I thank too all those I can’t mention cause it would take years to do so, even those who I have had disagreements with, each and every single one of you have a special lesson you have taught me, so thank you my family here at Roissy."

Staci turns and looks at Asfridr with a trembling smile "I have special thanks for my mentor, Asfridr, you have always been there since we first met, and we clicked as friends right off.  I had specifically asked for you to be my mentor, and over this year you have always been there to listen to me vent, to give me advice, always honest, and always what I needed."

Staci wipes more tears then turns a bit choked up to Maitre Loki,  "I also have special thanks for Maître Loki; you did everything I needed and more.  I had asked you not to hold back and you didn’t’, and it taught me so much that I needed to be able to grow further and be a light in this community.  Thank you Maître Loki for not pulling any punches so to speak."

Staci turns back to the crowd as I continue a bright smile for all yet a seriousness in the depths of blue eyes "As I look back over this past year, happy tears come to my eyes.  For all those who are just starting their paths, I have one thing to say, keep going, never ever give up, it is worth it.  It takes a lot to get through everything as it isn’t just tasks you are doing, you will be pushed.

"Do not shy away and if you make a mistake, then learn from it and continue on.   Even the pain and the tears are worth getting through, because it shows your truest worth when you can learn from adversity and pick yourself up and say I can do this!

"Never fear reaching out to anyone, as all here are here to help you, to encourage you, so if you are feeling alone, please never ever hesitate to reach out, you have family here that is there to support you, you just sometimes have to step outside yourself and ask

"Thank you to all who have come and are here.  I did it, I finished the path and am still here and still going.  Thank you again to Maître Rene for his vision and to all who work so hard to make Roissy an amazing place."

S U M M A T I O N

Xanadi with her skirts swirling around slender legs addressed the community. "It has been a pleasure to have your assistance Sister Staci while getting to know you better, and smiles seeing her take her place before Maitre Loki again .

"Sister Staci has proven to be very dedicated to Roissy .. as many of you have noticed and is ready to serve our Dominants and assist others as needed.

"We met in a group chat for one of our Entertainers Sir Shayne .. as she previously mentioned. So yall see we never know how our interactions with others will help int the growth of Roissy ValdOise

"Staci's participation and activities in the community has shown she can depended upon by being consistent is a fine example for a Sister .. as witnessed by those present at a few of the Tuesdays night Discussions with Maitre Thomas in the Chateau .

"The Roissy VdO paths to Sisterhood and perhaps to Roissy O or to becoming a Master or Maitre are done with the thoughts not only for themselves .. but for the others in our community. Our paths are structured to be done in service to the community while we progress grow and learn.

"Many come to VdO previously with experience and many without experience or just simply wanting to be educated further in the BDSM lifestyle practices and to learn safely while interacting with others.

"Sister Staci has shown her submissiveness .. not only from my reading of her log tasks.. but from Maitre Loki's positive recommendation and those of her mentor .. Asfidr . 

"The Finals we participate in are inclusive of the teachings we receive here at Roissy .. and lessons are still taught in our finals .. which also allows us to realize our growth since beginning our respective paths .  Our Finals may seem at times a bit hard .. but in the end it allows your core submission to blossom as we continue to grow in your own awareness.

"An existential part of becoming a Sister is the time spent actively in our community .. and to work for the betterment . At times our real life restricts our intentions here .. but with commitment it can be over come an obstacle.

"We are fortunate to have this amazing community .. Maitre Rene has offered this to us to safely learn the ins and outs of BDSM and all he asks in return is for your presence here and to do your part to keep it growing and flourishing. All work for our community should be done earnestly and without special recognition or rewards. Having the desire to help others grow .. while continually serving in whatever way we can .. this is the reward we offer to Maitre Rene .. our commitment.

"I remind yall that our Mentoring Dominants and Sisters presence here in the community is always needed . They not only spend time with their mentees but continue to help with the everyday happenings here in the community .

"Our Mentors .. both Dominant and Submissive .. provides a positive example .. while gently assisting through their guidance and support .. as well as helping others when asked. I was present at both Staci's *Overcoming Shyness* Sister Workshop and her *Roissy's Picnic Galore* Sister Event .. smiles over to her.. needless to say both were enjoyed.

"Once graduated .. Sisters continue to assist others in our community on their paths .. as well as the usual touring hosting presentation of various workshops and mentoring . For this .. I sincerely thank all of our Sisters..Your continued support to the House of Samois in the variety of things you do is indeed needed.

"Please assist as you can and uphold your responsibilities to our community. Whether it be touring or simply providing information to others about VdO .. above all .. be physically supportive of our community ."

"Maitre Thomas .. Once again .. Through you to Maitre Rene .. We thank you for your generosity and the gift given us daily .. this wonderful community .. where we are free to learn and discover our inner selves safely."

Turning back to the audience .. "First and primarily to our Dominants .. a sincere thank you to yall for being here to encourage and help us .. and especially .. for your patience as we continue to learn as we serve. To our Submissives .. We personally thank each of you for your continual support .. please remember .. we never have to pursue anything here by ourselves ... for we are a team. Each of you are special to me and I am here for you .. but above all .. YALL are very important to the success and growth of VdO.

"Many of our Members do things for the community thats sometimes are not visual to others. Id like to say thank you to a few.. Sana for setting up for the graduations .. Julie for decorating the Ballroom .. Sadie for setting the music for our various ceremonies and also Blue and the Journalists who assist her on the written events posted on our website. This also allows people get a peek as to what Roissy Vdo is about.

"Please think about what you would like to do in our community to help make Roissy even better .. both our graduated Dominants and Submissives are needed . Speak to either Maitre Rene Maitre Thomas or myself. Please know .. YALL.. are what makes Roissy work. Also please continue to show your commitment dedication and support to Roissy ... as you proudly wear your tag with pride and honor while being either on and off the sim. We never know when some one will IM us ... Asking About Roissy .

"In closing remember to hold high the principals of Roissy ValD'Oise .. that Maitre Rene has provided . We have the Best of the Best here. The positive support we offer to each other .. only insures to reinforce our strength and continued growth ... proving once again 'We are Familee.'

"Please remember to check our website so you will stay up to date on all the happenings of VdO http://www.roissy-vdo.com/

T O A S T  &  D I S M i S S A L

"Maitre Thomas, that concludes the graduation ceremony. The House of Samois is proud to see another of its Demoiselles taking her place in the wider Roissy community as a Sister."

Thomas walks over to the chilling champagne and smiles, "Yes the toast part of the ceremony, always a favorite"

Staci giggles softly hearing Maitre Thomas and watches him as he gets up

Thomas raises his glass and speaks, "Come everyone and raise your glass with me in congratulating and welcoming Staci into the sisterhood here at Roissy Val d'Oise.  A time for you to reflect and celebrate on your past, present and future. A time to rejoice and celebrate.  Staci, it is with honor to call you a Sister of Roissy Val d’ Oise. I encourage each of us as members to take a look deep inside ourselves, be the example setters for others as we lead and guide."

Thomas takes a another long drink, Let us each work together and share ideas. "Let us grow as a community as we seek to move forward. My door is always open if you wish to share ideas or just need to talk."

"I thank you for sharing in your time and showing support today as Staci became a Sister of VdO. Thank you our friend, Rene."