Limits

What are your limits?

Do you know?

Have you given any consideration to them? 

Every submissive needs to know what her preconceived limits are in two categories: 

Hard limit -- A hard limit is something that must not be done. Violating a hard limit is often considered just cause for ending a scene or even a relationship. Examples include “scat is a hard limit for me” or “I have a back injury, so striking on the back is a hard limit."

Soft limit -- A soft limit is something that a person hesitates about or places strict conditions on, but for which they will still give informed consent. An action could be prohibited except under specific circumstances or an area of discomfort that someone wishes to avoid. Soft limits can also be something that requires a cautious approach or while appealing, still generates an uncomfortable amount of fear.

This informative and important workshop addresses every aspect needed to be considered for understanding what your limits might be, looking at the different aspects of limits and establishing them.

Limits are for your protection, and before you ever consider playing with a Dominante, you need to be prepared. Only then will you be ready and equiped to explore your limits under the guidance of a Dominant.

See our CALENDAR for a listing of classes.